oh she/it's here AF/TOM arrived! *huge sigh of relief*

that said I/we have decided to take a break from TTC. I have been flapping my lips for months/years about taking control of my weight and blah blah blah before we start a family so I'm dedicating the next three months to doing just that. I have to get my body, mind and spirit in a better place before we start TTC'ing again. And honestly I know it won't happen until I do just that.